You’re not broken.
You’re rebuilding.
And rebuilding is harder than anyone imagines.
If you’re here, chances are your life doesn’t look the way you thought it would. Your family changed. Your identity cracked. And the version of you that used to “handle things” isn’t working anymore.
That doesn’t mean you failed. It means you’re standing in the middle of a rebuild — whether you asked for it or not.
I’m Peter, founder of The Rebuilders. I help parents navigating divorce or separation find their footing again — not by pretending it doesn’t hurt, and not by blaming their ex, but by learning how to lead their lives with honesty, emotional strength, and grounded clarity.
This work isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about rebuilding who you already are — as a parent, a co-parent, and a human being.
Why I Do This Work
I didn’t study this from the outside. I lived it.
I’ve been through the breakup of my family. I know the shame. The self-blame. The fear that you permanently broke something sacred.
I also know what it takes to rebuild — not perfectly, but with vulnerability and courage.
Over the past several years, I’ve coached hundreds of parents through the early shock, the identity free-fall, and the long middle stretch where things look “fine” on the outside but feel hollow on the inside.
What started as me sharing my experience publicly — first as a way to survive, then as a way to make sense of it — turned into thousands of conversations with parents going through separation or divorce who felt unseen, overwhelmed, and alone.
They didn’t need hype. They needed truth, empathy, structure, and someone who could sit in the mess with them without flinching.
That’s what The Rebuilders exists to provide.
What We Believe Here
At The Rebuilders, we believe most divorce support is broken. It almost always:
rushes you to “move on,”
turns your ex into the villain, or
hands you surface-level advice while ignoring the emotional wreckage underneath.
We Take A Different Approach
We believe:
Vulnerability is not weakness — it’s the doorway to real strength.
Avoiding your pain doesn’t protect your kids — it leaks into them.
You don’t heal by time alone — you heal by doing the work, with support.
This is about becoming regulated, present, and intentional — so your kids don’t carry what you never processed.
Who This Is For
This is for parents who:
are tired of just “getting through the week,”
feel disconnected from themselves and their kids,
want to stop reacting and start leading their lives again, and
are willing to look inward instead of outsourcing blame.
It’s for moms.
It’s for dads.
And it’s especially for those in the early days, when everything feels unstable and overwhelming.
What Happens Next
You don’t need to have clarity yet. You don’t need a 5-year plan. You just need a place to start.
The Rebuilders offers:
grounded guidance,
real conversation, and
structured support for parents rebuilding after separation or divorce.
If you’re ready to stop surviving and start rebuilding — for your kids and yourself — you’re in the right place.
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What people are saying
"Peter and the whole Rebuilders community has been such a tool and revelation to my self-esteem. Peter makes the process feel like you are talking with a close friend of 10+ years and not just a coach. The guys in the community are tight-knit and unified through Peter and all of our similarities in our lives, marriages, and separations. This truly feels like a group of guys who look out for one another and give thoughtful criticism and kind words on various problems we as dads and single men face. Peter is really onto something and has never been biased to either side when talking about spouses and the problems that arise. If you are having a hard time or even in the middle of a divorce or separation, get in contact with Peter. The guy has been a saving grace to my sanity and a dear friend to me through this process.”
- Shawn from Florida