But privately?

• You're exhausted in a way sleep doesn't fix

• You're making decisions you're not sure about with no one to run them by

• You feel completely alone even when you're surrounded by people who love you

• You're scared you're going to mess up your kids, your finances, or both

• You don't recognize the person you've become since this started

If any of that landed — you're in the right place.

Maybe you're functioning — getting the kids to school, showing up to work, keeping it together in public.

I've been exactly where you are.

Four years ago I was a parent in crisis. Separation blindsided me and I had no idea what to do next. I was scared, exhausted, and trying to hold it together for my kids while quietly falling apart.

The thing that changed everything wasn't a book or a podcast or someone telling me it gets better. It was finding other parents who were in it too — people who got it without me having to explain it.

That's why I built The Rebuilders. Because nobody should have to white-knuckle their way through this alone.

This is not a support group where you sit in a circle and cry.

It's a small, honest community of parents who are done waiting to feel better — and ready to actually do something about it.

Every week you'll meet on Zoom with a group of parents who are in it too. No judgment. No scripts. No toxic positivity. Just real conversation led by someone who has lived it.

Here's how it works:

• 4 live group sessions per month on Zoom with Peter and fellow Rebuilders

• Sessions capped at 8 people — everyone who wants to share gets to share

• Show up your way — camera on or off, share or just listen, there's no wrong way to be here

• Month to month — no long-term commitment required

$47/month. Cancel anytime. First step is just showing up.

“I met Peter during one of the hardest times in my life -- when I was desperately searching for support, clarity, and a way to grieve during my divorce. He welcomed me without hesitation. That openness was my first glimpse into the kind of coach -- and person -- Peter is. Every session with him left me feeling validated, seen, and more grounded. He didn't just listen, he gave practical tools, thoughtful homework, and weekly check-ins that kept me moving forward when I felt stuck. His guidance helped me process loss, rebuild my confidence, and begin to heal in a healthy way.”

- Ashley from New Jersey

"There's a transition that you can tell has happened when they/we stop referring to each other as ‘my ex’ and instead say ‘my kid's dad/mom’ — the identifier changes the whole dynamic feel.”

- Katrina 

"I found Peter scrolling through TikTok. I thought I'd be shy at first but I found the group very welcoming. By the end of it I was fully communicating my personal situation completely free of judgment. I was so relieved to realize I wasn't alone. That was the heaviest weight I'd been carrying. I've been attending for about a year now and have no plans of stopping."

-Kevin

Don't take our word for it.

Not sure where to start? Here's where most people begin.

For parents who want ongoing community and support

Four live group sessions per month. A small group of parents who get it. Led by someone who has been through it.

$47/month · Cancel anytime

For parents who are stuck and need clarity right now

One hour. Your situation. We find exactly where you're stuck and what your next move is — not someday, right now.

$97 · One-time session

Every purchase made from The Rebuilders supports American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) and National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV).

You've already done the hardest part.

You found this page. You read this far. That tells me something about you — you're not someone who gives up. You're someone who is looking for a way through.

This is the way through.